A rugby post has been doing the rounds on social media, and it’s got more truth in it than most corporate culture decks we’ve seen.
The All Blacks’ longtime mental skills coach, Gilbert Enoka, is credited with bringing in what’s known as the “no dickheads policy.” The rule isn’t about being perfect. It’s this: one person with a negative attitude can collapse the culture of an entire team.
Former professional athlete Ezra Taylor, reflecting on the policy, put the cost in plain terms: every setback that was in his control, and possibly even some injuries, came down to being a dickhead.
Swap “athlete” for “employee” and “coach” for “manager” and you’ve got a business lesson most Australian employers still haven’t learned.
Why do businesses keep hiring (and keeping) talented dickheads?
Because short term, talent is easier to measure than character. Sales numbers, billable hours, output, all sit on a spreadsheet. Culture damage doesn’t show up until later, and by then it’s expensive.
We see this constantly. A high performer gets away with poor behaviour because leadership doesn’t want to lose the numbers. Meanwhile good people quietly disengage, or leave altogether, because nobody wants to work alongside someone who makes every day harder than it needs to be.
Talent is not the problem. Tolerating bad character because someone is talented is the problem.
What does a no dickheads policy actually look like in a workplace?
It’s not a poster on the wall. It’s three things done consistently:
- Hire for character, not just capability. Skills can be taught. Attitude, accountability and self-awareness are much harder to install after the fact.
- Address behaviour early, every time. The moment leadership lets one instance slide because someone is “too valuable,” the standard is gone for everyone.
- Make it safe to call it out. If your best people are too scared to raise a concern about a teammate’s behaviour, your culture is already compromised.
As Taylor put it, three lessons every athlete should learn: get out of yourself, put the logo before your ego, and remember your attitude is contagious. That’s not sports psychology. That’s just good leadership.
What questions should your team be asking themselves?
Taylor’s advice for athletes translates directly to any workplace team. A handful of honest questions do more for culture than any values poster:
- Am I coachable, or do I get defensive at feedback?
- Do I put others down, or blame teammates when things go wrong?
- Do I hold onto mistakes, or get back to focusing on the team?
- Am I chasing attention, or contributing to the result?
Taylor calls it becoming an “energy vampire”: someone whose behaviour quietly drains a team rather than lifting it. Most managers can name one without even thinking hard. The harder question is whether they’ve actually addressed it, or just worked around it.
Is talent ever worth the trade-off for bad behaviour?
Rarely, and never for long. A talented dickhead costs you in ways that don’t show up on a P&L straight away: turnover of your good people, disengagement, reputational risk, and eventually a general protections or bullying claim when someone finally pushes back.
One business we worked with kept a high-billing consultant on staff for years despite repeated complaints about how he spoke to junior team members. By the time they acted, they’d lost three good employees and were facing a formal grievance. The fix cost far more, in time and money, than addressing it early would have.
Character is a performance enhancer. Teams win with people who lift others, not just their own numbers.
How do you enforce a no dickheads policy without unfair dismissal risk?
This is where founders get nervous, and rightly so. “They’re a dickhead” is not a lawful reason to dismiss someone. But conduct and performance are.
The path that holds up:
- Document the specific behaviour, not the personality. “Repeatedly spoke over colleagues in meetings and dismissed their input” holds up. “Bad attitude” doesn’t.
- Give clear, written feedback and a genuine chance to improve, unless the conduct is serious enough to warrant immediate action.
- Follow a fair process. Warnings, support, and a real opportunity to respond, every time.
Do this well and you protect the business and the culture at the same time. This is exactly the kind of call we help clients work through daily, cutting through the BS to a path that’s actually defensible.
FAQs
What is a “no dickheads policy”?
It’s an informal but serious hiring and management principle: no matter how skilled someone is, if their behaviour damages the team, they’re not worth keeping. Originally popularised in elite sport, including by the All Blacks, it applies just as well in business.
Can I performance manage someone for having a bad attitude?
Not on “attitude” alone. You need to point to specific, observable behaviour and its impact, such as talking over colleagues, missing deadlines because of poor collaboration, or breaching workplace behaviour standards. Document it and follow a fair process.
What if the person is one of my best performers?
That’s exactly when it matters most. The longer a high performer’s poor behaviour goes unaddressed, the more it teaches everyone else what’s actually tolerated in your business.
How do I know if it’s a performance issue or a culture issue?
Ask whether the issue is about output or about impact on others. If good work is getting done but people are disengaging, avoiding them, or raising concerns, you’re looking at a culture and conduct issue, not a skills gap.
What is an “energy vampire” at work?
It’s someone whose behaviour drains a team rather than lifting it, through complaining, blame, defensiveness or constantly seeking attention. They may hit their targets, but the cost shows up in everyone else’s engagement and output.
The bottom line
The All Blacks didn’t win because they found the most talented players in New Zealand. They won because they refused to let talent excuse bad character. That’s a lesson every business, not just every sports team, should be applying.
Talent gets you selected. Character decides how long you stay in the game. Every coach is looking for talent. The best ones are looking for character.
If you’re not sure whether a performance issue is actually a character issue, or how to manage it out fairly, that’s exactly what we help with.
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